Acharya Prashant said that we are afraid of loneliness because everything we have got is from others. We’ve never known you. So if you move away from another life, then it seems that life itself has stopped.
New Delhi, Jn. Writer and Vedanta penetrating Acharya Prashant say that loneliness bothers all of us. A little bit of a bit is not alone that he immediately opened Facebook, got the phone. Not only that, if we see someone else alone, we say, “What happened?” Why be so sad?” as if feeling alone is evidence of being unhappy.
Acharya Prashant said that we are afraid of loneliness because everything we have got is from others. And apart from what we’ve got from others, we’ve never known you. So when these others leave life for a while, we feel that life itself has stopped, because we have never known what is completely our own.
According to Acharya Prashant, we have only known what we have got from someone else. And we’ve got everything from others. The name comes from others, beliefs are from others, religion is derived from others, the definition of life comes from others. Liberation, truth, money, career, love, society — all of these are defined from others.
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So for a while, when it is away from the ‘other’ life, there is a lot of fear. It is natural to feel because if this life is the name of others, then when others move away, it seems that life has gone away. Loneliness will not only be afraid of the one who has to know himself. Who says, “I have something other than others that no one has given me and no one can take away from me” – the same will not be afraid of loneliness. Then for him, ‘loneliness’ will become ‘kaivalya’. And there is a great difference between these two worlds, the earth, and the sky. Now for him loneliness is no longer a scary dream, the same solitude will now become a celebration. But many of us don’t like to spend time with us. We become very uncomfortable when left alone.
If someone doesn’t like to be with you, how will anyone else like it?
Acharya Prashant says that you don’t like being with you, how can others like to be with you? Your condition is so bad that you can’t afford to be with you, you can’t afford to be with you, how can others tolerate you? First, you should get kaivalya, learn to be happy with yourself, remove dependence on others. Turn this loneliness into civility. And it’s a matter of great fun that one who knows how to be happy in himself, then when he is with others, completely becomes with them. Who is alone, what happens when he is with others? Restless for the sake of being together – “Just find someone”. So whatever I get now, what will I do with it? “I can’t live without you.” And the other is saying, “What’s wrong with me?” Leave me!”
Acharya says that whatever relationship is formed due to ignorance, it will give only sorrow. Whatever connection with loneliness will be this – “Hold on with both hands, don’t let go!” He can’t leave you free anymore. And if he sees that you are with someone else, there will also be tremendous jealousy. All of these are illnesses of loneliness — ownership, jealousy, fear. That’s all that will occur– “All the mates I had with me got married. Mom, do it for me too, it seems very lonely. “
The relationship is made of your perfection. Kaivalya is perfection. The relationship that will be formed with him will be very beautiful. Then you’re with each other because you’re in bliss, not because you’re in need. Mental or physical need – If there is a need for either of these two, then whatever relationship comes out of it, it will be a relationship of exploitation.